Tuesday, 14 October 2008

Coping with uneven breasts: People who say "Deal with it".

I have come across a lot of messages from people saying that people with uneven breasts should just "deal with it". I'll be honest. I'm not stupid, I am well aware that the vast majority of women have a difference in cup size. If it was a case of a cup size, I could deal with it. That would be normal. Two sizes would be harder but in time there would be some hope. I have a three to four size difference. My reply to these people is YOU deal with it.

Pad your bra out on your left side or borrow a bra and pad it out one side only so it goes up by 3 inches. Now walk down the street like it. What's that? You don't want to? Now why could that be? Is it the thought of people staring at you? Laughing at you? Is it unattractive to see yourself that way? Well honey, at least you can take that padding out, I can't take out mine. I have to put IN padding to look like you. What's it like? What's it like to be able to buy a bra that doesn't cut you in half on one size and leave a large gapping pocket on the other? What's it like to go to the beach? What's it like to have a hug? I can't hug anyone, I'm too scared they will feel it. What's it like to have sex? I'm still a virgin because no man will ever touch me. To any woman who ever gets told to just deal with it, I suggest pulling your bra insert out and smacking them across the face with it.

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